OK. Otro cumpleaños mas para mi y la verdad ya no quiero cumplir mas 
jejeje me quiero quedar donde estoy, pero echandole un vistazo a mi vida 
creo que este poema que encontre por ahi ahora en este momento hace mucho 
sentido y las cosas que hise las hise a mi manera, osea como me gustan, y si 
tuviera un chance de regresar al pasado creo yo que las haria de la misma 
forma sin cambiar nada.
 
FELIZ CUMPLEAñOS AMI. 
 
Si para recobrar lo recobrado
debí perder primero lo perdido,               
si para conseguir lo conseguido
tuve que soportar lo soportado,               

si para estar ahora enamorado
fue menester haber estado herido,               
tengo por bien sufrido lo sufrido, 
tengo por bien llorado lo llorado.               

Porque después de todo he comprobado
que no se goza bien de lo gozado
sino después de haberlo padecido.               

Porque después de todo he comprendido
que lo que el árbol tiene de florido
vive de lo que tiene sepultado.
 
(Francisco Luis Bernardes)

Sometimes we expect far too much of the people around us and because no one can ever live up to those expectations, we are almost always disappointed.Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, and let people be who they are? Then we would be able to see them as they are ~~ with all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy and with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves.When we have put someone up on a pedestal, sculpturing them to fit our needs and desires by smoothing out the rough edges and creating new curves here and there, we cannot see the real person underneath our work. All we see is the illusion we have created. That is denying the person's real identity and it is disrespectful. I think it is much better for our friends and for ourselves if we drop our expectations and illusions, and accept them all just the way they are. Whether we realize it or not, everyone we know is very special to us.The most important thing to remember is ...

Always appreciate the friends that you have. A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.The people who make a difference in our life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care. Angel